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  • Post 9. Conditioned For Failure

    Do you know what’s been on my mind lately? How sensitive can we be to the opinions of others, and how easily can we be hurt and manipulated by words? It’s wild when you think about it! The laws of human nature play such a huge role in how our…

  • Post 8. Domestic Violence – From Love To War

    There can be no excuse, only specific, unavoidable accountability for domestic violence. Understanding its origins is essential to implement effective measures to lower domestic violence. We need to know what triggers our frustration and how to prevent its escalation to violence. We must acknowledge human nature, accept rather than deny…

  • Post 7. The Origin Of Violence

    Absent and insufficient RAi triggers violence at work, in the community, and at home. It was a quiet Sunday morning when the phone rang, and my daughter Emily’s panicked voice came through the line. “Dad, I need your help. Things with Evan have been getting terrible. His temper tantrums are…

  • Post 6. Like A Moth To A Flame

    The laws of human nature or instinct dictate that being noticed, gaining acceptance, and having power are very important. These imperatives are inherent in children as members of our species. Unfortunately, people may use these imperatives to exploit you, your kids, and your grandchildren. Screens provide undivided attention and instant…

  • Post 5. Understanding The Risk of Children’s Screen Addiction

    Contents: –When I Met Pone –Human Nature Makes Us Vulnerable to Screen Addiction –Human Nature Magnifies The Potential Harm Of Screen Use –Promoting Balanced Screen Use– I don’t know when I met Pone, but I was around one year old. My fifth birthday is next week, so that’s a long…

  • Post 4. Saving a Dying Relationship

    A Stamp of Discontent Sarah and Michael, a couple of over three decades, stood at the bench in the bustling post office. Despite their bodies being close, their spirits were miles apart, a stark contrast to the buzzing fluorescent lights overhead. “For heaven’s sake, Michael, you’re holding the pen wrong,”…

  • Post 2. Together We Are One

    Understanding based on Evolutionary Psychology Attention-seeking behaviour likely evolved as an adaptive mechanism to ensure survival and reproductive success. By attracting attention, individuals could gain access to resources, secure social bonds, increase mating opportunities, and establish status within a group. Humans are inherently social creatures, and attention-seeking behaviour has evolved…

  • Post 3. LOVE and Human Nature

    Contents of this post: Humans are born with an unconscious drive to ensure the species’ survival. The terms ‘instinct’ and ‘human nature’ are used interchangeably in describing human nature. Human nature’s strategy to preserve the species uses the tactics of:- 1. Group membership 2. Comparisonitis (constantly scanning for threats to…